Olivia Lu

Happy Chinese Lunar New Year! Let’s have a brilliant year. New Year’s resolution is about getting married to dearest you!! My heartfelt thanks to you all for the great experience.

thank you!!

best mind—>best mine—>best life. thanks 2017. and I’m ready for 2018 la😊 much love w/ you❤️ also thank you for having me in your life. cannot wait for our new chapter!!

Veterans at Harvard Law School share experiences

Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking: as for me, it will be all square!!
1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?
2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?
3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?
4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?
5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?
6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?
7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?
8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?
9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?
10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends?
11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?
12) What does my family do that annoys you?
13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?
14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?
15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?

If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead you anywhere spectacular.

Pains make you stronger, tears make you braver, and heartbreaks make you wiser. So thank the past for a better future. Also, life is too short for us to wake up in the morning with regrets. So it’s time to start living the life you’ve imagined.

/Thank you again. I’d appreciate it!!

Whisper words of wisdom. Let it be…

Define like and thank you!! And I want you to be happy.


/abt BOBO

Oldest “princess”, thank you for helping me out of the painful experience! And that was an amazing and special night. That was the magic day to us too.

/abt BOBO

Restart!!

In the past, we thought so innocently that an honest heart always brings back an honest heart. So we put our hearts on our sleeves for everybody. But the result is that we got all bruises. One has only so much love to give. We can’t waste any bit of it. I live for myself.

Shouldice Hospital Limited

Shouldice Hospital, a Canadian facility that performs hernia operations only, has developed procedures to maximize surgical success rates, save patients money, and speed their recovery in a friendly, noninstitutional environment. The hospital’s advertising consists of word of mouth, and Shouldice’s popularity is such that former patients (“alumni”) return by the hundreds for reunions. The hospital has a backlog of prospective patients awaiting surgery, and the case sets forth various proposals for increasing its capacity. In considering change, the importance of the organization’s close-knit culture—built around quality service, attention to patients, and an attractive work environment for doctors and staff—must be taken into account.

/Study well and make progress every day…

There is a wholeness about the person who has come to terms with his limitations, who has been brave enough to let go of his unrealistic dreams and not feel like a failure for doing so. There is a wholeness about the man or woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive, she can lose someone and still feel like a complete person.

Life is not a trap set for us by God so that he can condemn us for failing. Life is not a spelling bee, where no matter how many words you’ve gotten right, you’re disqualified if you make one mistake. Life is more like a baseball season, where even the best team loses one third of its games and even the worst team has its days of brilliance. Our goal is to win more games than we lose. When we accept that imperfection is part of being human, and when we can continue rolling through life and appreciate it, we will have achieved a wholeness that others can only aspire to. That, I believe, is what God asks of us — not “Be perfect”, not “Don’t even make a mistake”, but “Be whole”.

If we are brave enough to love, strong enough to forgive, generous enough to rejoice in another’s happiness, and wise enough to know there is enough love to go around for us all, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever know.

XOXO

Failing is what makes us grow, it makes us stronger and more resilient to the aspects of life we have no control over. The fear of failure, although, is what makes us stagnant and sad. So even though I couldn’t see the future as clearly as before, I took the plunge in hopes that in the depths of fear and failure, I would come out feeling more alive than ever before.

If you feel lost, just take a deep breath and realize that being lost can be turning point of finding out who you truly are, and what you truly want to do.