I saw a show about a woman who took care of bovines. I remember the comment she made about her washing the skin and hair of a bull. She said, yes, a bull will huff and puff when you get near one, but is just as intimate and in need of a hand on their body as any female. It’s all just show. I am certain I paraphrased that somewhat incorrectly due to my own need to adopt some of the idea of what she wrote into my own psyche, however, I sometimes think I am like that bull she was referring to.